You’re in the right place if…You feel behind on AI and don’t know where to start. You have ideas but no systems. You’re posting on social media but not seeing consistent results. You just want someone to hold your hand and tell you what to do. (Hi, that’s me! 👋)

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If you're tired of feeling stuck and not sure where to start, this is exactly where you start.

  • START WITH CASSIE, HEALTHY HABITS AI COACH

    Build tiny daily health wins + habit momentum with guided and supportive conversations with Cassie. Perfect for those focusing more on health and lifestyle first. Takes 60 seconds to start. Just open ChatGPT and start talking.

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    OR TRY HOLLY, AI SOCIAL ASSISTANT

    Never stare at a blank screen again. Holly helps you craft better social content quickly so you can build momentum and social engagement. Perfect for those focusing on business first. No tech headache, just paste your thoughts and let her help.

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I help beginners, overwhelmed social entrepreneurs, coaches, and tech-curious creators stop guessing and start building. By focusing on the intersection of mindset, marketing, psychology, systems, and AI, you’ll go from stuck to strategic, without the burnout.

Hi, I'm Brenda!

Die-hard GenXer, Social Marketing Enthusiast, AI nerd, Speaker, and Sassy Storyteller.

I help social sellers, digital marketers, creators, and entrepreneurs shift from "just selling stuff" to building online brands that serve value, authenticity, heart, storytelling, and crush the sales.

After a decade of coaching and creating content, I’ve cracked the code to online income: Monetizing your influence with social systems, AI, and strategy.

I've built multiple 6 and 7 figure businesses, and now help thousands of clients build their own empires.

Whether you’re brand new or simply burned out, I’ll help you sell smarter, not harder with smart strategy, smart systems, and smart tech.

Thousands of social sellers, creators, and entrepreneurs have learned my systems over the past decade. Now I teach them in a way that’s simpler, smarter, and supported by AI.

WHEN YOU'RE READY TO GO DEEPER...

You’ve played with some AI tools, and you’ve seen how helpful a little AI support and simple structure can be. This is where it all comes together - in my cozy and guided email membership, Social Systems Insider.

Weekly coaching you and implemente immediately that connects mindset + marketing + psychology + systems + AI so you stop guessing what to do next and start building real momentum in your business.

No extra distractions like groups or lives or Zooms, just focused clarity and doable next steps in your inbox.

START YOUR FREE MONTH OF INSIDER

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Outstanding! And I'd do it again

Outstanding! And I'd do it again. 🥰

Robin Guillard Guillard
Elite Social Circle
Elite Social Circle
Very excited about the Circle

Very excited for all the learning at my fingertips in 2026!

Anna Wisnoski
Elite Social Circle
Elite Social Circle
Wow.

Easy to make a start on so thanks.

Anonymous
FREE: Leveraging AI for your Business - 50 ChatGPT Ideas for Direct + Social Sellers
FREE: Leveraging AI for your Business - 50 ChatGPT Ideas for Direct + Social Sellers
I love your templates

I love your templates, they are so easy to incorporate

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So insightful and full of so many ideas

So insightful and full of so many ideas.

Brenda Haywood
ALL-ACCESS PASS - The AI Advantage: 2 Days to Smarter Social Selling
ALL-ACCESS PASS - The AI Advantage: 2 Days to Smarter Social Selling
I love it!

I love it! I just went through yesterday and made some of them my own! Going to schedule out a month of Fall content today! Thanks!

Carrie Koster
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I loved them!

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This is such a fabulous group of supportive people! Brenda is amazing

This is such a fabulous group of supportive people! Brenda is amazing, the level of help and expertise is second to none - thank you!!

Su
Elite Social Circle
Elite Social Circle
This guide is so helpful

This guide is so helpful. Brenda is very generous with knowledge she shares for free with her guides and in her workshops!

Debbie S.
FREE: Overwhelmed to Organized - The Ultimate Guide to Social Selling for Women Over 40
FREE: Overwhelmed to Organized - The Ultimate Guide to Social Selling for Women Over 40
A supportive community

A supportive community, learning and implementing as you progress, no matter what stage you are at in your business. I'm excited to see what is next on my path

Terri
Elite Social Circle
Elite Social Circle
ESC is the best training for women of a certain age

ESC is the best training for women of a certain age.
It lets you know ALL the things you need to know, leads you on a path of your own choosing to the answers and their is a big, beautiful community and several specifically trained AI assistants to help you along the way.

Lori
Elite Social Circle
Elite Social Circle
Best decision I’ve made to move my businesses forward in a long time.

I’ve been following Brenda for a while now and even taken some training workshops. After I took the AI training, I knew I needed to get plugged in to the Elite Social Circle to help me get out of my way, stop learning from all the trainings and workshops and ACTUALLY start doing. I can see myself staying in the Circle for a long time.

Lisa
Elite Social Circle
Elite Social Circle
Great vibe

The class was informative for beginners like me and very eye-opening. I love the energy and the enthusiasm for helping everybody elevate their goals and aspirations. Great job! Great community! Keep up the good work 👍🏻

Ana Angel Tootle
ALL-ACCESS PASS - The AI Advantage: 2 Days to Smarter Social Selling
ALL-ACCESS PASS - The AI Advantage: 2 Days to Smarter Social Selling
Great class on ChatGPT

Great class on ChatGPT. Thank you for your wisdom and not holding anything back. I love your authenticity!

Tracey
ALL-ACCESS PASS - The AI Advantage: 2 Days to Smarter Social Selling
ALL-ACCESS PASS - The AI Advantage: 2 Days to Smarter Social Selling
I haven't even finished Day 2 and I already have great results!

I haven't even finished Day 2 and I already have great results! One of the things I've struggled with for a long time is really nailing down my ideal client. I just finished adding my personalization to ChatGPT and asked if it could help me define my ideal client. Boy, did it deliver! Complete with a printable checklist for "Connection Carla" to keep at my desk for reference. Thank you for another amazing workshop!

Nan
ALL-ACCESS PASS - The AI Advantage: 2 Days to Smarter Social Selling
ALL-ACCESS PASS - The AI Advantage: 2 Days to Smarter Social Selling

If you’re overwhelmed and still doing it all manually, you’re working too hard. Let's hire AI-powered systems as your virtual assistant!

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