Let’s be real: the holidays are already loud. Your audience is bombarded with sales, pop-ups, countdowns, and ads.
So how do you stand out when everyone is screaming “Buy now!” louder than Mariah Carey on December 1st?
You show up with personality. Not perfection. Not pressure. Just you, sparkly, sassy, and unapologetically authentic.
Let’s talk about what that actually looks like, why it works, and how to bring your full (festive) self to your holiday selling.
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Why Personality Sells Better Than Pressure
During the holidays, most direct sellers go full promo mode. Your company is pushing sales and bundles and has tons of gorgeous product imagery, so it's natural to want to just spray them out online.
But here’s the truth: People don’t buy because you’re shouting louder. They buy because they like YOU. (If anything, the loudest shouting gets unfollowed. #annoying)
Your audience is scrolling to escape the chaos, not to feel like they just walked into a mall kiosk. (Because we all know that mall kiosks are the in-person equivalent of a pop-up ad.)
When you infuse personality into your posts, lives, and emails, you create connection. And connection drives conversion.
How to Add Personality (Without Feeling Like a Walking Christmas Meme)
Tell Holiday Stories
Share your real life. Your burnt cookies. Your elf-on-the-shelf fails (ours is named Angelina and last year she broke her leg so she had to stay sitting on the mantle all month. 😆) Your tradition of wrapping gifts in leftover Amazon boxes.
Let your audience relate to you as a person, not a product pusher.
Example Post:
“Tried to bake Pinterest-perfect sugar cookies. Ended up with sugar hockey pucks. Anyone else just buy them from Costco and call it a win? 🙋"
You’ve just made your people laugh and nod, and they’ll remember that post WAY more than your “25% off ends tonight” graphic. Take a look here - I just posted one the other day over on my page, that highlights this example.
Create a Holiday Persona
Lean into a fun alter ego for the season. Think:
- Your “Hot Cocoa Hype Woman”
- Your "Sassy Claus" version of yourself
- Your “Holiday Hype Fairy” sprinkling deals and sparkle all December
Give your audience something to look forward to. When they see your name pop up, they should smile.
Example:
Go live each week as “Brenda the Blitzen Boss” (antlers optional) and count down the top 3 must-haves from your shop that week.
Use Holiday-Themed Content Hooks
Put a festive spin on your usual content. Instead of just “Gift Guide,” try:
- “Gifts So Good You Might Keep Them for Yourself”
- "The White Elephant Gifts Everyone Will RAVE About"
- “What to Buy Your Sister-in-Law Who You Secretly Want to Out-Gift”
- “Stocking Stuffers Under $20 That Don’t Feel Cheap”
Make your audience feel something. A chuckle. A nod. A “yes girl!” moment. That’s the magic.
Feature YOU in Your Content
Your audience doesn’t want stock photos or Canva overload. They want to see you.
- You holding your favorite product in your kitchen
- You wrapping orders with Diet Coke in hand and a Santa hat slightly askew
- You doing a “behind the scenes” shipping day with a holiday playlist in the background
Pro tip: Messy works. Real life sells.
Add Holiday Personality to Your Customer Experience
I personally love companies that send high-personality emails and confirmation messages. Infuse your personality anywhere you can!
- Thank you notes (“You just made this elf do a happy dance, order confirmed!”)
- Packaging inserts (“Warning: opening this package may cause excessive joy and spontaneous squealing.”)
- Customer messages (“I just packed your order while listening to Michael Bublé. You’re basically holiday royalty now.”)
Considerations for Direct & Social Sellers
Let’s break it down with a few sassy, actionable examples for your biz:
If You Sell Products
- Go live in your cozy robe to show last-minute gift sets
- Create a “12 Days of Me” countdown series — one product each day with a personal story
- Post a holiday blooper reel of you filming your content — everyone loves a behind-the-scenes laugh
If You’re Building an Email List
- Run a festive freebie campaign: “12 Days of Tips,” “Sassy Holiday Survival Guide,” or “The Direct Seller’s Naughty List”
- Infuse your subject lines with cheeky cheer:
- “Sleigh My Name, Sleigh My Name”
- “Let’s Get Lit (by the tree)”
- “You + Me + A Little Holiday Magic”
If You’re Hosting an Online Party
- Theme it up! Try “Wine + Wrap,” “Holiday Happy Hour,” or “The Cookie Crumbles Party”
- Open with an icebreaker like: “What's the weirdest gift you've ever received?” Instant engagement.
Don’t Overthink It, Just Turn Up the YOU
If you’re reading this thinking, “But I’m not that funny,” or “I’m not creative enough for that,” let me stop you right there.
You don’t need to be the next holiday romcom heroine. You just need to show up as you.
- You in cozy socks with a messy bun and glitter on your cheeks.
- You laying on the couch watching your 11th Hallmark movie.
- You who forgot the scissors and wrapped presents with kitchen shears.
- You who loves this season but is also totally exhausted by it.
That realness? That’s what your audience will love. That’s what sells.
You’re the Brand
This isn't new, you've heard me say it a bajillion times. Holiday selling isn’t just about what’s in stock. It’s about who’s behind the screen. Let your audience feel your joy, your sass, your sparkle and they'll remember you long after the tinsel is tossed in the trash.
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